When Love and Loss Meet

Saying goodbye to an animal is not just ‘losing a pet’. It is losing a relationship. A routine. A witness to your life.

For 12 years I worked as a grief therapist in a funeral home, supporting individuals and families through death, anticipatory grief, and life-after-loss. That experience shaped how I hold space now for people facing end-of-life decisions with their animals or navigating grief after a loss. This is not dramatic or mystical work. It is steady, compassionate and emotionally grounded.

Pre-Transition Support

If your animal is aging, ill or declining, you may be carrying guilt about timing, fear of making the wrong decision, caregiver’s exhaustion or emotional overwhelm. In these sessions we explore your animal’s emotional state at this time, your own grief and anxiety, what feels aligned and compassionate and how to be present without panic. These sessions do not replace veterinary guidance. They support your emotional clarity.

Sometime what people need most is the support to trust what they already know.

End-of-Life Communication Sessions

These are focused sessions that explore your animal’s emotional readiness, attachment themes, comfort or discomfort states, unspoken reassurances and closure. You receive a structured written summary. It would be unfair to make the promise everything will be alright, but what I can assure you of is absolute thoughtful attention and grounded insight.

After-Loss Grief Support

Grief after an animal’s death can feel isolating. Many people hear “It was just a dog” or “You can get another one”. But grief does not measure itself by species. It measures by love, by relationship, and by the value to the heart.

If you are experiencing persistent sadness, guilt, what-if loops, anger or emptiness, you are not overreacting. You are grieving a bond. In these sessions we focus less on communication and more on processing the loss, integrating memory, releasing guilt, and honoring the relationship without being consumed by it.

My Approach to Grief

Grief needs steadiness. It needs containment. It needs courage from someone who is not afraid of it. I have held grief for hundreds of people, and I do not rush emotion, minimize nor inflate it. I hold it. And I do the same for my animal caretakers experiencing a loss.

Who This Is For

This service is for you if your animal is declining and you feel overwhelmed. You are facing euthanasia decisions. You are questioning whether you waited too long or acted too soon. You feel dismissed by others about your grief. You want closure in a structured and supported way.

A Grief Workbook is included in this package.

If you feel ready for support - whether before, during or after loss -

I would be honored to sit with you.